By the time I was 17, I knew exactly the type of lifestyle I wanted, and it was more glamorous than the Section 8 apartment I grew up in. I remember a former boyfriend at the time asked me what kind of car I wanted. I confidently blurted out "Range Rover." Boy was he bothered! He went off about the prie of the car (he wasn't willing to use his income on that particular car). I didn't care about the price, it was my dream car and I was going to get it with or without him.
Fast forward to present day, the dream man and car has changed, but the overall lifestyle remains the same. Why? Because I know what I want! Women have so much trouble verbalizing what they want. They are afraid of what other people will think, afraid of success, etc. You cannot go through life just winging it, taking whatever comes your way. You will waste time and energy. It's a dangerous game. You do not want to look back at your life with regret asking yourself how did I get here?! You NEED to set directions to get to your dream destination..
Do YOU know what you WANT? Do not look to others for the answers..all of the answers are within you. Set the ambiance..light candles, turn on meditation music, lay out your crystals. Sit down with your eyes closed long enough to listen to your intutition. Write down your goals and aspirations. Speak it into existence. This will help put positive energy and your intentions into the universe.
Don't be afriad to go after what you want.